Government Bureaucracy
The following explanation of our government in action may get confusing as it sometimes confuses us too:
The Malawi embassy sends the I-600 documents to US Embassy in S. Africa as they do the actual approvals. The first of November we contacted the S.A. embassy and were told we needed a few more documents which we immediately faxed to them. We then received an email from the officer that process the paperwork which stated that she had been reassigned and was no longer in S.A. We were to direct all inquiries to another person. At this point we knew that things were going to get interesting.
We contacted our NEW contact and he informed us that they are waiting for a document from the Malawian embassy that verifies Bridget's orphan status. The incredible thing about this is that we couldn't have adopted her if we hadn't proved that she was an "official" orphan. Our frustration is beginning to rise... It gets even better--because they no longer have someone to process the I-600 in S.A. they will be sending our paperwork to Rome!!! Yes, that is Rome, Italy. I wonder how long that will take?! At this point we can only say, God knows.
We have been through 6 adoptions and there has always been a point where things looked impossible and we had to trust the Lord to work it out and He did but in His time. We said from the beginning that we would need a miracle for Bridget to be our daughter and I believe the we need one now.
The latest update from S.Africa was that they were still waiting for the document from Malawi but that they had forwarded the paperwork to Rome anyway. We emailed the embassy in Malawi and they received our email but have not replied.
Since it looks like we won't be returning to Malawi before Bridget's visitors visa runs out (March 3) we now have to apply for an extension. Not only does this cost another $300 but the paperwork is not set up for a parent to be filling out the form for a non-writing child. The place for her signature states that she understood and answered all the questions OR someone translated the questions for her in another language and then she answered. Since we couldn't check either box we just left them blank and Andy signed it as the preparer. We sent in the application and it is returned to us because Bridget didn't sign it even though we attached an explanation of our situation. We just love working with our government!!
Andy was able to speak to someone at Immigration (which is a miracle) and they told him to sign his name for her. The reason he didn't do this in the beginning is because in Malawi when we filled out the I-600 he had signed his name for her and they made us white it out and put her thumb print there. Arghhhh...
So here we wait...